Saturday, April 23, 2016

Naming Allen Waits' Father and Half-brother

By Wally Waits
©2016

There is no known documentation that directly ties Allen Waits with his father.  The previous blog article http://www.waitsfamilyhistory.blogspot.com/ identifies two brothers.  This article identifies a half-brother and establishes a link with a proposed father.

Allen lived in close proximity with another Waits between 1830 and 1832.  This was after Allen migrated into Jackson County, Alabama where Allen purchased 153 acres of land from the federal government on 10 May 1831.  This was a pre-emption purchase.

The land office in Huntsville, Madison County, Alabama was only open about once every ten days or so.  During the time Allen purchased his land, deeds were issued on May 2nd, May 10th, May 20th, June 1st and June 15th.  Allen purchased his land on May 10th and a James Waits acquired 80 acres on 1 Jun 1831.  That delay allowed Allen to definitely acquire his property.  Then James was able to identify property near Allen’s land.  The land James chose was adjacent to Allen’s southern boundary.  It seems likely the purchasing of adjacent property implies that a relationship existed between the two.

Just a year earlier, James was a 30 to 40 year old resident of Conecuh County, Alabama in southern Alabama.  He was living in the vicinity where Allen’s presumed brother, Joseph, resided.  James left south Alabama where he was living about July, 1830 and traveled to northeast Alabama where he purchased land adjacent to Allen less than a year later.  If Allen had a strong bond with James, one strong enough to prompt James to migrate 200 miles in order to live close to Allen, this relationship has to be important.

I believe that Allen and James Waits were half-brothers.  They could not be full brothers because James, but not Allen, is listed on an 1855 application for pension benefits filed by descendants of Samuel Waits, a Revolutionary War veteran.  James was listed as the eldest of eight children by the veteran’s wife. 

This list in the pension application mentions no children born before 1796.  Yet, the 1790 and 1800 Newberry County, South Carolina census clearly lists earlier children in Samuel’s household.


Since Allen was born about 1790, he has to be a child of the first marriage.  Therefore, Allen and James have to be half-brothers.  This logic would make the Samuel Waits, the Revolutionary War veteran, Allen’s father.

Thursday, February 25, 2016

The Search for Allen Waits' Brothers

By Wally Waits
©2016

Allen Waits, for many researchers, had no family of origin.  That is, it was not possible to identify either his parents or his brothers or sisters.  At last, I begin to part the curtain of the past enough to glimpse some of the family members that surrounded Allen’s youth.

I will explore the search for his brothers. I hoped that it would be a successful search because his brothers would have carried the same surname.  During the search, it was possible to locate two brothers with a reasonable amount of trust because they lived during the first half of the nineteenth century, a better documented era than the century earlier.

My strategy in looking for Allen’s siblings was constructed to take advantage of the common practice of naming children after close family members.  I used Allen’s forename to pinpoint otherwise hidden kinships.  If Allen had been named John or William, this avenue would not work because these Christian names are too common.  But Allen’s given name is not that common.  Even then there was no guarantee that this search would be successful because Allen may not have any nephews named for him.

The technique used involved a search for grown nephews who might be named for their Uncle Allen.  Such adults were expected to be the head of their own family.  Such men would likely have been listed on federal population schedules.  Now that most of these heads of household would appear in an alphabetical index, the search began with the 1820 census.  This was because it was believed to be the first census that might contain a grown nephew named Allen.  That year the only Allen Waits (of any variant spelling) was listed as a resident in Warren County, Tennessee.  And of course we know this is the Allen Waits who was born in 1790 because of his marriage in 1814 in this county.

The 1830 census lists an Allen Waits as living in Jackson County, Alabama.  This again is the 1790 Allen.  All other Allen Waitses listed in the 1830 census live in the northern states and can thereby be ruled out.  A couple of other Waitses were ruled out of the list for the 1820 census for the same reason.

The 1840 and 1850 censuses only list men named Allen Waits who lived in northern states.  The Allen Waits who was born in 1790 died in 1832 therefore cannot be listed on any subsequent census.

The 1860 census finally lists another Allen Waits who lived in the American South who might be a nephew named after the Allen Waits born in 1790.  This second Allen Waits was born about 1814 in Georgia.  This geographical connection fits with the Bible entry that said Allen was from Georgia.  This younger Allen Waits was living in Alachua County, Florida in 1860.  Further research proves that this Allen Waits was the son of Joseph Waits who was born between 1770 and 1774.

This Joseph Waits happened to have had another son named Bolin.  Bolin is an even rarer forename than Allen.  So Bolin was used to locate additional relatives in the census records.  A second Bolin Waits proved to be the son of John C. Waits.  This John C. Waits was born between 1780 and 1785.

These two Waits, Joseph and John C., are believed to be brothers of Allen because of the sharing of uncommon forenames.  The connection between Allen and John C. Waits is enhanced by the following discovery.

The earliest record of Allen Waits (b. c1790) appears on a deed that he witnessed on 22 Dec 1809 in Jasper County, Georgia.  In this deed, Jacob Warbington sells half of Lot #11 to Ellemander Warbington and Samuel Warbington.  Virginia Weeks believes Ellemander and Samuel Warbington were Jacob’s sons.  Slightly over a year later,John C. Waits married Martha Jacob’s daughter, “Patsey” Warbington.  Allen, we can see, was associated with John C. Waits’ future father-in-law thirteen months before John married Patsey.

Thursday, January 21, 2016

Jonathan Waits' Birth

By Wally Waits
©2016


Jonathan Waits claimed to have been born in the 1740’s according to the 1830 census.  This date may be incorrect as he was illiterate.  Both the census of 1790 and of 1820, loosely collaborates this date by saying he was born before 1775.

He consistently is associated people who lived in the back country.  He is never listed on documents with the older South Carolina Waight families who lived in the coastal area.  This suggests that he was not born in the colony, but rather immigrated into the colony.

The makeup of Jonathan’s household in 1790 includes four young males and ten females.  If one of the females was the mother of these children and there are no additional relatives residing in the household, it appears that he had thirteen children by the fall of 1790.  This suggest that children began appearing in his household about 1765.

Another way to calculate Jonathan’s birth date is by looking at his military service during the American Revolution.  He joined a British supporting militia in 1780 and had to be at least sixteen years of age to do so.  This indicates that his birth occurred before 1764.

A third indicator of Jonathan’s birth date is based on his acquiring a land grant from the colonial government of South Carolina.  Because he received the grant in 1784 and also had to be at least sixteen years of age to do so, his birth occurred sometime before 1768.

Collaborating census records include an entry for a son, Humphry. This son claimed to be born in 1784 in South Carolina.  This age agrees with the birth of a son in the 1775/1790 time frame.  Unfortunately, the sparsity of information on most of Jonathan’s children prevents a more detailed understanding of Jonathan’s birth.

If Jonathan married in the 1760’s, he likely was born in the 1740’s as reported in 1830.  His wife, who is unidentified, likely was born in the late 1740’s or early 1750’s.  The 1830 census reports a birth in the 1750’s.

Jonathan Waits may have arrived in South Carolina at any time.

Friday, January 15, 2016

Waits - Sanders Bible Records

By Wally Waits
©2016

It is believed that the information originally was recorded in the Bible belonging to George Woodard Sanders.  Being literate, George likely received the Bible upon his marriage to Drucilla Best in 1805.

Unfortunately, the copy of the information extracted from the Bible by Henry Newton Sanders was torn at the top of the page and George and Drucilla’s marriage date does not appear with the remaining information.

But the record of births and deaths of George and Drucilla’s children are recorded in chronological order, suggesting that the information was written contemporaneously. This sequence of vital information suggests that the Sanders Bible dates from at least 1806 when the first Sanders child was born.

The notation about the marriage of George W. Sanders and “Rhoda Waits widow of Allen Waits Sen” proceeds the list of their offspring.  It follows the record about the death of Drucilla Sanders, George’s first wife.  George and Rhoda’s children appear after the notation documenting their marriage.

The next notation is the reference to three more children who did not survive to adulthood probably the last children Rhoda delivered.

On a second sheet of paper are the birth records of Allen Waits and Rhoda Cope and all ten of their children.  At the bottom of the births of Waits children appears the record documenting Allen’s death in 1832.  What is missing is the death record of the youngest Waits child who died in 1848.  This entry should have been in the Sanders Bible and only possibly in the Waits Bible if it still survived that late.

It is possible that this information was recorded in the same Sanders Bible with the records documenting George’s first family.  Or Newt Sanders, the first born child of the second marriage, may have been in the possession of the original Waits Bible.  It is not clear whether the information he is copying in 1904 is derived from one or two Bibles.

The origin of this information is included in the following statement appearing at the bottom of the Bible records:

“Copied from the original record by H. Newt. Sanders of Wesley Ark for Wash J. Sanders of Hindsville Ark this the 3rd day of Jan. 1904.”  These two pages were photocopied for the author by Mrs. James H. McCoy of Tulsa, OK in 1972.

The following is Larry Bohannon’s transcript of the photocopied pages.  The information was published in Madison County Genealogist, vol. 4, no. 4 (Winter, 1972), page 126.

Page 1
(top of page torn) - - of George W. and Drucilla Sanders his first wife also their names and births
George Woodard Sanders Sen was born in Bedford Co Va Sept 24, 1785
Drucilla Best his wife was born Sept 6 1787
Below is the names and date of Births of their children
Kitty Sanders was born Nov. the 8th 1806
Matilda Sanders was born Feb 27th 1808
John Sanders was born Nov 23rd 1809
Patsy Rice Sanders was born Oct 18th 1811
George Woodard Sanders Jr. was born Sept 2nd 1813
Drucilla Sanders was born July 5th 1815
   And departed this live Jan the 25th 1816
Levi Best Sanders was born Dec 25th 1816
Drucilla Banks Sanders was born Feb 2nd 1819
Polly Holeman Sanders was born March 27th 1821
William Bobbert Sanders was born Jan 16th 1823
Samuel Gover Sanders was born Oct 24th 1824
Charles Burton Sanders was born Sept 14th 1826
Lockey Sanders was born May 29th 1828
One More Boy, Born and died in infancy
Drucilla, wife of G. W. Sanders Sen Departed this life Nov 17 1835
G. W. Sanders Sen and Rhoda Waits widow of of  Allen Waits Sen Deceased were married in Alabama in 1836
Below is the names and Birth of the Children born to them [George and Rhoda]
Henry Newton Sanders was born Mar 23rd 1837
Osina Malona Woodard Throckmorton Jackson Sanders June 22, 1839
Washington Jefferson Madison - - (torn) - - Delalb Co-pe Sanders, Dec 9, 1840
Three more Children - - (torn) - - and one Boy

Page 2
Allen Waits Sen was Born in the State of Georgia A. D. - - (torn) - -
Rhoda Cope was born in Warren Co Tenn Nov 4th 1800
Allen Waits Sen and Rhoda Cope were married in Warren Co Tenn A. D. 1814
Below is the names and dates of Birth of their Children
Polly Waits was born July 24th 1815
James Waits was born May 11th, 1817
Cartrel Bethel Waits was born Aug 2nd 1818
Allen Waits Jr was born July 20th 1820
William S. Waits was born Jan. 14th 1822
Joseph Waits was born Dec. 4th 1823
Elizabeth Waits was born Jan 12th 1826
Linea Doran Waits was born Apr 19th 1827
Rhoda Emeline Waits was born Dec 19th 1829 (Orig. mis-transcribed by Bohannon as Nov 5th 1831)
Matilda Jane Waits was born Nov 5th 1831
Allen Waits Sen departed this life July 29th 1832
Copied from the original record by H. Newt. Sanders of Wesley Ark for Wash J. Sanders of Hindsville Ark this the 3rd day of Jan 1904.

(End of transcription)

Saturday, November 21, 2015

John Waight & Batchelor Gregory Family


Wally Waits
©2015
John Weight married Batchellor Gregory on 4 Nov 1733 in Andover, Hampshire, England.[1]  Batchellor Gregory was christened 20 Oct 1714 in Andover, Hampshire, England.  She was the daughter of William and Ann Gregory.[2]  William Gregory married Ann Gillmore on 13 Jun 1698 in Andover.[3]

There are several Johns with variant spellings of the Weight name.  All were born in Hampshire, England.

John Waight was christened 30 Aug 1697 in Andover.[4]  He may also be the John who was recorded as being christened on 8 Sep 1697 in Andover.[5]  Both John Waight’s were the son of a Richard Waight.  The second entry may be a re-recording of the week earlier christening.

There are two other John Waight’s that might be the same who married Batchelor Gregory.  The first was christened 24 Mar 1707.  He was the son of John and Mary Waight and was christened in Andover.

A last John Waight was christened in Andover on 11 August 1707.  This John was the son of John and Margaret Waight.

Because the last two John Waight’s might have been too young to be the parent of the following children, it is believed that the John who was Richard’s son was the one who married Batchelor/-er/-ellor and christened the following children in Andover.

1  1.     Batchelor Waight was christened 4 Sep 1734.[6]  This was probably a daughter like her mother.
2  2.     Ann Waight was christened 7 Oct 1737.[7]
3  3.     John Waight was christened 3 Nov 1740.[8]
4  4.     Mary Waight was christened 15 Aug 1743.[9]
5  5.     Daniel Waight was christened 6 Jan 1747.[10]
6  6.     Sarah Waight was christened 27 May 1751.[11]
7  7.     Hannah Waight was christened 18 Jun 1753.[12]

This family of John Waight does not contain any wife or children who match with the household that arrived in Charlestown, South Carolina in 1768.


[1] "England Marriages, 1538–1973 ," database, FamilySearch(https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:NLCR-CXV : accessed 21 November 2015), John Weight and Batchelor Gregory, 04 Nov 1733; citing Andover,Hampshire,England, reference ; FHL microfilm 890,181.
[2] "England Births and Christenings, 1538-1975," database, FamilySearch(https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:NDMQ-M24 : accessed 21 November 2015), Batchellor Gregory, 20 Oct 1714; citing Andover, Hampshire, England, reference item 4; FHL microfilm 1,041,197.
[3] "England Marriages, 1538–1973 ," database, FamilySearch(https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:NVJS-Y8V : accessed 21 November 2015), William Gregory and Ann Gillmore, 13 Jun 1698; citing Andover, Hampshire, England, reference ; FHL microfilm 1,041,197.
[4] "England Births and Christenings, 1538-1975," database, FamilySearch(https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:NDM3-FZK : accessed 21 November 2015), John Waight, 30 Aug 1697; citing Andover, Hampshire, England, reference item 2; FHL microfilm 1,041,197.
[5] "England Births and Christenings, 1538-1975," database, FamilySearch(https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:NBNB-5JX : accessed 21 November 2015), John Waight, 08 Sep 1697; citing Andover, Hampshire, England, reference item 2; FHL microfilm 1,041,197.
[6] "England Births and Christenings, 1538-1975," database, FamilySearch(https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:NDM3-6LV : accessed 21 November 2015), Batchelor Waight, 04 Sep 1734; citing Andover, Hampshire, England, reference item 5; FHL microfilm 1,041,197.
[7] "England Births and Christenings, 1538-1975," database, FamilySearch(https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:J7CZ-RYG : accessed 21 November 2015), Ann Waight, 07 Oct 1737; citing Andover, Hampshire, England, reference item 5; FHL microfilm 1,041,197.
[8] "England Births and Christenings, 1538-1975," database, FamilySearch(https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:J3LN-S4H : accessed 21 November 2015), John Waight, 03 Nov 1740; citing Andover, Hampshire, England, reference item 5; FHL microfilm 1,041,197.
[9] "England Births and Christenings, 1538-1975," database, FamilySearch(https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:J3LN-S3L : accessed 21 November 2015), Mary Waight, 15 Aug 1743; citing Andover, Hampshire, England, reference item 5; FHL microfilm 1,041,197.
[10] "England Births and Christenings, 1538-1975," database, FamilySearch(https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:NDM3-9L4 : accessed 21 November 2015), Daniel Waight, 06 Jan 1747; citing Andover, Hampshire, England, reference item 5; FHL microfilm 1,041,197.
[11] "England Births and Christenings, 1538-1975," database, FamilySearch(https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:J9HR-9VX : accessed 21 November 2015), Sarah Waight, 27 May 1751; citing Andover, Hampshire, England, reference item 5; FHL microfilm 1,041,197.
[12] "England Births and Christenings, 1538-1975," database, FamilySearch(https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:NDM3-3BV : accessed 21 November 2015), Hannah Waight, 18 Jun 1753; citing Andover, Hampshire, England, reference item 5; FHL microfilm 1,041,197.

Sunday, November 15, 2015

Did Allen Waits Commit Suicide?

By Wally Waits
©2015

I have long wanted to know how Allen Waits met his death in 1832.  I had conjectured a farming or hunting accident, land dispute with a neighbor or perhaps a disease.
I had never seriously considered suicide for some reason.  Now I know why I did not consider this possibility.

Roberta Estes discussed suicides in a blog entitled “Johann George Dorfler (1732-1790), Suicide, 52 Ancestors #98” located at https://mail.google.com/mail/u/0/#inbox/151095498b6be5ef.  She said that “Most suicides today are related to one of, or a combination of, several things: Depression, Alcohol or Drug Addiction, Terminal Diagnosis, Accidental [or] Extremely Traumatic Event.

In Roberta’s case, she had testimony that her ancestor’s death was self-inflicted.  In Allen’s case, there is no such statement that directly rules suicide in or out of consideration.  Yet, by following the same critical analysis like Roberta, it is possible to arrive at a better understanding of Allen’s end-of-life event.

It seems to me that the modern causes of suicide listed by Roberta might be sorted into two categories.  The two groupings are previous symptomatic indicated and sudden onset death.

Depression, Alcohol or Drug Addiction, Terminal Diagnosis and possibly some Extremely Traumatic Event might have prepared the family for Allen’s demise.  Accidental and [short-term] Terminal Diagnosis may not have provided much preparation for accepting Allen’s death.

One point that Roberta mentions provides an avenue for analyzing Allen’s death.  She wrote that “Suicide affects so many people, far more than just the person who dies.”
This observation provides a way for examining the issue of whether Allen committed suicide.  Some of the salient points in Allen’s life include the births of his children.  From his date of marriage, children were born like clockwork.  In eighteen years, ten children appear.  These children average 21 months between births.  This average fits well in the 18 to 24 months that is expected.  For this reason, it is possible to say that there does not appear to be any long-term problems in Allen’s health.

Short-term problems include farming or hunting accidents.  Farming and hunting accidents are more likely in my opinion.  Allen Waits was about age 42 when he died.  Because he had a son who died from a fall out of a tree when trying to retrieve a squirrel, it is entirely possible that he had a hunting accident. 

However, Allen died at the end of July, on the 29th according to a Bible records his widow saw.  This is not a likely hunting season.  This was the harvesting time of a year.  This argues more favorable for a farming accident.  It was also the time of year when a person is chopping wood in advance of winter.  Lots of wood would be needed for the fireplace for cooking, for light and for warmth.  One of the accidents associated with chopping wood was when an axe ricocheted off a log and cut a gash on a leg. Gangrene is a terrible way to die, but there were occasions such as this when accidents lead to infections.  This was a century before antibiotics.

A family would have grieved over Allen’s death if he died from an accident.  But as Roberta said “Suicides affect many people…”  Had Allen died by his own hand there would have been questions about his family not taking steps to help him avoid this tragedy.

Yet four years later, Allen’s widow married a man believed to be at the top of society.  This probably would not have been acceptable had Allen taken his own life.  Furthermore, his children would not likely have named grandchildren after him.
Within four years of Allen’s death, a grandson was named Allen Waits Sanders.  Six more grandsons carried the “Allen” name.  There obviously was no stigma attached to his life.  He was revered, and was well remembered.


So, no, Allen Waits did not commit suicide.  At least that is my impression.

Thursday, October 8, 2015

Rhoda's Struggle to Find Happiness Again

Wally Waits
©2015


Rhoda Cope[1] seems to have had a happy marriage with Allen Waits from 1814 to 1832.  Then her husband’s sudden death disrupted her life.  The loss of companionship was compounded by the loss of financial security.  This is the story of Rhoda’s second marriage and her struggle to find happiness again. 
Allen’s death almost certainly forced Rhoda to think about the long term needs for herself and for the future of her children.  As the mother of eleven children, she would have naturally reflected upon her situation.  Rhoda had several strengths.  She was still young enough to attract the attention of suitors since she was only 31 years old at the time of Allen’s death.  It seems, however, that her grief prevented her from hastily remarrying.
Rhoda also had a farm.  In that regard, she had a home that was paid for.  There were, however, strings attached to the land.  She could not inherit the property herself.  The land legally became the property of her children.  The farm could thus be sold for the children’s benefit.  This would require long-term bonds to insure that the children would agree with the transaction when they became adults.  This obligation would last for at least eighteen years because the youngest Waits child was a daughter who was less than a year old.
There was an alternative option for the family.  This option was to lease the farm until the children all reached maturity.  Then they could legally execute a deed disposing to the farm.  The children would finally receive their inheritance.  It was this legal process that clearly outlined the connections of all of the Waits children.
Rhoda’s daughter, Mary or “Polly,” had married about age 15 to John D. Sanders, the oldest son of Drucilla Best and George Woodard Sanders, a respected, well-to-do farmer.  Mary and John opted to not make the journey with John’s parents and siblings when the George took his family to the northwest corner of Arkansas Territory in the fall of 1831.  Surveyor’s field notes document George Sanders living in Washington County on February 17th, 1832.
Mary and John Sanders opted to not emigrate to Arkansas with John’s parents remaining in Jackson County for two more years.  They followed John’s parents to Arkansas Territory about the fall of 1833, leaving Rhoda dependent on her oldest sons, James, Beth and Allen Jr.
Two years later, John’s mother, Drucilla Sanders, passed away on Nov. 17th, 1835.  George Sanders left Arkansas Territory in early spring on a journey back to northeast Alabama.  One suspects that his purpose was courtship, but he may have had business reasons as well.  The trip took a couple of months, but George’s arrival date is unknown.  He had to have arrived sometime in late spring because seasonal rains flooded creeks that blocked roads. 
George seems to have proposed to Rhoda shortly after his arrival and she seems to have agreed without much delay.  Their agreement was certainly made by early June as will shortly be apparent.  One family story that survived until the late 1900’s is that George and Rhoda had been lovers before marrying different mates.[2]  They then married following the deaths of their respective spouses.  The first part of this story is patently in error as Rhoda was barely five years old when George married Drucilla Best in 1805.  Rhoda knew George as a consequence of John and Mary’s marriage.  George and Rhoda had certainly met and become acquainted during their children’s courtship.  They would certainly have met at John and Mary’s wedding.
There is a gap of four years between the death of Allen Waits and the marriage of these two parents.  First of all, there is no hint that Rhoda was attracted to George before her husband’s death.  But, she was apparently quickly and fully committed to marrying George because she was nearly two months pregnant when she and George stood before the minister.  Rhoda’s head-strong nature about getting married did not turn out well a second time.
Rhoda’s pregnant condition is based on the birth of her first Sanders child, a son named Henry Newton Sanders.  Since she had given birth to eleven children in her first marriage, and all apparently healthy, full-term births, it is expected that she would have another healthy, full-term delivery.  It comes as a surprise to find that her first child by George was born on March 23rd, 1837.  This means that Rhoda must have become pregnant with Henry about the middle of June 1836.  This is nearly two months prior to her marriage with George. 
From the time of George’s arrival back in Jackson County in the spring of 1836, few records shed light on events.  Family records claim that George and Rhoda married on Aug. 9, 1836, the second Sunday of the month.  A Sunday wedding implies that their marriage was performed by a circuit rider. 
No description of the wedding survives.  George most likely saw that the celebration afterwards was a gala affair.  If George and Rhoda’s marriage was anything like his son Henry’s marriage in 1856, there were a couple of days of eating and imbibing to mark the occasion.  In 1856, George’s new daughter-in-law finally tired of their celebration and put her foot down after three days in an effort to end the feasting and drinking.
Preparations for traveling to George’s home in Arkansas commenced in earnest after the wedding.  Rhoda had moved to Alabama only a few years previously, so she knew what preparations had to be completed for the trek to Arkansas.  Possessions had to be packed or disposed of.  Rhoda had to plan meals for a minimum of two months for at least a dozen people.  She would decide which cooking pots would be used nightly for preparing meals over an open fire. 
 George oversaw the purchase of wagons and the examination of the teams of oxen to ensure that they could pull a wagon full of clothing, food, utensils, furniture, etc.   The spinning wheel and dresser would make the trip.  The mattresses would, too, but not the home-made bed frames.  Iron plow points would be removed from plows to join the other tools in the wagons.
They could only take what they could load onto the wagons.  One of the pieces that Rhoda insisted in bringing to Arkansas was her loom.[3]  This was probably the largest item they took.
Crops in the field had to be harvested and then sold.  Then one of the most important tasks needing attention was dealing with the Waits farm.  As long as the Waits family remained on the farm, there was no need to take legal action.  But the widow and children were migrating westward.  Because the father of the Waits household was deceased, an agreement was needed for a local farmer to take over the farm.  The Waits farm was not to be sold, but instead leased out until the youngest Waits child either became an adult or married.  Only then could the children collectively dispose of their inheritance.  The children gave John Sanders power of attorney to finally sell the farm in 1848 after Matilda’s tragic death.
            At last the final packing and preparation was completed and George Sanders, his pregnant new bride and the ten remaining Waits children left Jackson County bound for the Arkansas frontier.  It is said that the caravan arrived in Washington County in the very new state during the first snowfall of winter.  The journey had taken a long time and Rhoda was pregnant the whole trip.
Rhoda moved into George’s log cabin previously occupied by Drucilla.  The house was built only five years earlier.  No description of the structure survives, but it surely was a two-pen structure with a dogtrot between each pen.  George would build a framed house adjacent to the log house[4] probably during the 1840’s or the early 1850’s.  It was probably for Rhoda in an effort to keep her from separating from him.
 It is believed that Rhoda married George for money and status.  Well, she got the status, but Rhoda must have been unhappy with her marriage almost from the start.  Unfortunately for her, however, divorce was not an option.  These were only granted by the state legislature and her husband’s service as a Representative effectively blocked that avenue.
            George Sanders was elected to the Arkansas House of Representatives for Washington County on October 1st, 1838 in Fayetteville.  The new state’s second legislative session lasted from Nov. 2nd to Dec. 17th, 1838.  George spent time in Little Rock, in all probability without his wife.  This freed George to frequent the taverns in the state capitol where legislators bent elbows and argued on behalf of their pet acts they were hoping to enact. 
This was not George’s first drinking session.  Many of Arkansas’ candidates for office are said to have tapped kegs of liquor in order to buy votes.  The October 1st balloting in Huntsville would have been such a time.
 George would also serve in the third state legislative session in November and December, 1840.  During his absence from Madison County, Rhoda gave birth to their second son, Washington Jefferson Madison DeKalb Cope Sanders.  This time he represented Madison County that had just been carved out of Washington County.  He was not re-elected in 1842, but returned to Little Rock for the fifth General Assembly that lasted from Nov. 4th, 1844 to Jan. 10th, 1845.  This was his last term as a state representative.
            Rhoda may have been grateful that George was in Little Rock for each of the legislative session George attended.  Those couple of months the legislature was in session would have meant that it was peaceful at home. 
During these years that George served in public office, she had given birth to a son and a daughter who survived.  George and Rhoda’s second child was a daughter named Osina Malona Woodard Throckmorton Jackson Sanders.  There were three more children who must have been born between 1840 and 1846.   They were two girls and a boy who did not survive and were not named.
The settlement of the Waits estate in 1848 was possible because of one of the most tragic events possible.  In the spring of 1848, Matilda Jane Waits was the youngest child of Allen and Rhoda Cope Waits.  As the youngest unmarried daughter at home, she was the remaining roadblock to the estate’s settlement.  She was born November 5th, 1831, just a few months before her father’s sudden death.  She was walking past the wash pot that sat atop a log fire on a spring day.  Always cautioned to be careful around fires, Matilda’s dress hem ignited after a wind gust blew it against some hot coals.[5]  The burning dress, the frightful cries and the futile first aid effort afterwards were heart rending.  Matilda’s death removed the remaining blockage for settling Allen’s estate.
The 1840’s were a trying time for Rhoda.  During this decade, she suffered the deaths of three infants and an almost grown daughter.  Furthermore, James Cope Waits and Joseph Waits went to Texas rather than remain close to their mother.  Joseph told his daughter that he did not like the strict discipline of his step-father.[6]  This was also the period when her marriage completely broke down.
The lives of Rhoda’s two youngest children suggest that they suffered during the early years of their lives by living in a household with arguing and fighting parents robbed them of a sense of security.  Wash and Osina were victims of their environment.  The 1840-1845 years of marriage to George were rocky ones given the repressed anger expressed by Rhoda’s two youngest children. 
Wash was cantankerous in his disposition according to a nephew.  At one point, he caused a visiting half-sister to flee his home in tears after only a half hour.  Wash was described as a “bad actor,” but his may also have been a reference to his Civil War service.  It is believed that the recollection of an uncle’s behavior was illustrative of temperament.
Osina, on the other hand, grew up fearful of marriage after having seen her parents quarrel repeatedly.  She was so fearful that she lived with a pharmacist and bore him five children before finally marrying.  The pharmacist father repeatedly reapplied for Civil War pensions.  In sequential applications, he continuously back dated his marriage date to earlier and earlier years, finally covering all of their children’s births with a fictitious marriage date.
            One cannot say that there was a sexual conflict between George and Rhoda, but there are certainly elements that support the idea.  Rhoda probably entered menopause about 1845.  George may have turned to his slaves after intercourse with Rhoda ended.  This is suggested by the 1850 Slave Schedule that lists the presence of several mulatto children on the Sanders farm born after 1842.  These multiracial children may not be George’s offspring.  They could have been purchased, but he is recorded as being prolific father, having sired 20 children by his two wives. 
George was independently minded and maybe was ideologically incompatible with Rhoda.  Rhoda’s father was very religious in his beliefs and probably instilled a Christian belief of morality in his daughter.  Rhoda was likely religious as well because she named one of her Waits sons after a minor Tennessee evangelist.  Furthermore, her father was asked frequently to speak to misbehaving men and women in Warren County, Tennessee. 
There is a story about George that seems to date after his service as a state legislator.  A descendant related an account about concerned neighbors visiting George.  While the cause for the visit was not relayed, the story is telling in many ways. 
The visitors stopped their horses at the edge of the corn field where George was pulling weeds.  He stood up and walked over to the fence to learn why these men wanted to talk with him, though I imagine he guessed.  The visitors were upstanding members of the local community and were ardent church-goers.
Just like Rhoda’s father activities, these good brethren had come to talk to George about concerns worrying some of his neighbors.  The nature of George’s behavior that was so worrying is not recalled, but George was of no mind to bend to the community’s standards.  When the visitors raised the threat of turning George out of the local church, George reportedly said, “They need not be concerned about turning him out.  He would turn himself out.” That ended the discussion.  George Sanders then returned to his weed pulling in the corn patch while the pious neighbors departed.
Rhoda was probably unsatisfied with George’s behavior for years.  But public rebuke of her husband’s behavior may have been the final straw for her.  She would have been greatly displeased to say the least. 
The 1850 census reports Rhoda as still living with George W. Sanders.  But that is the same census that reports Isaac Murphy as living in Washington County, when in reality he was in the California gold fields.  So Rhoda could have been listed as still a being a member of George’s household when in reality she had already moved out.
The 1860 federal census clearly shows that she has moved out of George’s frame house and is living her son Newt Sanders and his wife and child.  There is no way of telling exactly when she left George’s home.  Such a move signaled her departure from high society.  She also left behind the help of at least one slave woman.[7]
In leaving her marriage, she literally moved from light to darkness in the process of taking up residence in a small log cabin.  But, in this cabin that was located in Beth Waits Hollow just south of the Dunaway Cemetery, she found the peace and a measure of happiness that had been absent for nearly two decades. 
Only the rock cornerstones of the cabin survive to mark its location.  This was her home for the remainder of her life.  Grandchildren, and some of her children as well, regularly checked on her to insure that she had enough food, water and fire wood.  She had several of her Waits children and a couple of her Sanders children living close by to assist her.
The years of the Civil war were the hardest for her because kin had to be careful about coming to Rhoda’s house.  She likely had to fetch her own water, a daily chore.  On 27 Oct 1862 that she got word that her husband had passed away of uremic poisoning.[8]  She might have traveled to the Wesley Cemetery for his burial. 
During the last years of the war, wild animals became a threat in Beth Waits Hollow.  At one point, Granny Waits had to “bar the door” to protect herself from wolves according to an uncle of Clayton Eubanks.
Women, especially elderly ones, were of little threat to combatants on both sides of the conflict.  They may have been robbed of food and livestock, but generally were not personally molested unless they were found aiding soldiers.  Rhoda had a son whose farm was nearby.   Because he had Southern sympathies and hid in the forest in order to stay near his family, Rhoda had to be careful about going to his farm.  It was very dangerous for him to work on his own farm, to be seen in the neighborhood or to visit kinfolk.
Union sympathizers finally observed her son at his farm one evening.  Word was passed to a local quasi-legal Union militia that soon rode up and surrounded her son’s cabin.  William S. Waits was shot down in the back yard when he ran out of his home in hopes of reaching the underbrush.  Rhoda probably heard the gunfire that killed him.  She probably feared the worse had happened.  She probably helped prepare the body and assisted in taking it to the Dunaway Cemetery for burial, chores she did not likely perform for her husband a year or two earlier because his death was miles away according to the filing of his probate.
Rhoda was recalled by the name of “Granny Waits” in the neighborhood for over a century.  Officially, she remained a Sanders and was listed on the 1860 census as such.  It is possible that she began using her former married name late in life.  She passed away on January 17th, 1868 in Newt Sanders’ home[9].  Her burial in the Dunaway Cemetery is marked by a casket-shaped stone laying on the ground.[10]  The Civil War had ended several years earlier, so many of her neighbors and relatives would have attended.  Close by is her son’s grave that is marked by a broken sandstone slab similar to Rhoda’s.  A granddaughter[11] recounted in 1972 that her grandmother was buried adjacent to a son.  The only child possible was William S. Waits, her fifth offspring.  Another stone of similar material is next to these two graves.  Rhoda, even after her death, is surrounded by family.




[1] This account is an attempt to recreate her life using the known facts and inferences that seem to make sense.  All errors are mine.
[2] Myrtle Waite Davis, interview 27 Mar 1972.
[3] Myrtle Waite Davis, interview 27 Mar 1972.
[4] Eugene Counts, interview 5 Sep 1976.
[5] Myrtle Waite Davis, interview 27 Mar 1972.
[6] Myrtle Waite Davis, interview 27 Mar 1972.  Her father did not like his step-father’s strictness.  His step-father threatened to beat her father if he stood on one foot.
[7] Myrtle Waite Davis, interview early March, 1972.
[8] Eugene Counts, interview 10 Aug 1976.
[9] Stoneleigh Parker Cummings, Newt’s grandson, interview on 5 Aug 1972.
[10] Stoneleigh Parker Cummings, interview 26 Feb 1972.
[11] Myrtle Waite Davis, interview Mar 1972.